Roger Gilbert MA Professional Therapy & Coaching in Leeds and online throughout the UK Make an appointment today

Havening Techniques®

How I can help

Havening Techniques are an astonishingly simple set of techniques for clearing negative emotions like:

  • fear
  • anxiety
  • anger
  • jealousy and shame

– and for developing positive emotions. They work through the body’s own systems for calming yourself – i.e., the power of touch – and they are something I can teach you to use for yourself. If you are a golfer, you can use havening to overcome the “yips”!

I have been a registered practitioner of Havening Techniques since 2016. You can find my profile on havening.org here – Roger Gilbert


More about havening techniques

We have all experienced the fight or flight response – the feelings of anger, fear or anxiety which arise when we feel under threat. The fight or flight response is initiated by the amygdala, a small area of the brain which has a primary role in the processing of memory, decision making and emotional reactions. Sometimes those feelings of anger, fear or anxiety can become a problem – if they become habitual or they are sparked off inappropriately. If that arises, the question is how to turn off the negative feelings. You have probably experienced for yourself that logic doesn’t work, and that is where havening comes in.

Havening is the use of the power of touch to switch off negative emotions. More specifically the stroking of upper arms, face and hands – which are all things which we do instinctively and naturally. And what makes havening really useful is that it is something we can learn to do for ourselves.

Havening techniques are the result of years of study and clinical work by Dr Ron Ruden, a physician in New York, and his twin brother Stephen.


I saw Roger for help following a bereavement. I found that the Havening Technique helped me to feel relaxed and far more settled in my mind about the situation. Nine months later I am still feeling the benefits. I found Havening easy to learn, very calming and relaxing and it really works!

AJ, Leeds

I qualified as a registered practitioner of havening techniques in 2016. Since then I have used havening to help people with all sorts of issues, including:

  • Phobias
  • Anxiety
  • Anger
  • Bereavement
  • Fear
  • Trauma
  • Stress
  • Developing resilience and confidence
  • Sports performance

Frequently Asked Questions

Havening Techniques is a registered trademark of Ronald Ruden, 15 East 91st Street, New York


Book an Appointment

To book an appointment or find out more, ring me on 0113 285 7136 or 07903 462715 (including weekends) email me or use the contact form.

I see clients online or in person from Monday to Friday during the day and in the evening. If you would like to find out more about me first, I offer a free, no-obligation 20-minute consultation when you can tell me more about the help you need and find out more about the help I offer.

I work from 8 The Grove, Alwoodley, Leeds LS17 7BW with easy access by car and public transport from the centre of Leeds. There is plenty of parking available.

I also see clients all over the country online and it works very well. I can use a variety of different video platforms like Zoom, Whereby, FaceTime and Skype.


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